This week's episode
Hear the argument.
Then settle it.
Jason and Becka get personal about their blended family of six adult kids. They each share stories from when their children were young, what those kids are doing now, and how they learned to stop defending their own. Eighteen years together taught them that loyalty to your spouse beats loyalty to your bloodline — but it took some hard lessons to get there.
Message in a bottle
Tell us where
we went wrong.
Voting is the verdict. This is the reasoning. Pitch us a topic, take a side, or tell Becka she's wrong — someone has to.
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Sandra M. Voted Starboard 2 hours ago
Jason. Sweetheart. My son is 34 and he still gets a card with a twenty in it, and he still calls me to say thank you. That twenty is not about the twenty.
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Dee R. Voted Port 5 hours ago
Finally someone said it. I have four of them and it's $80 a year in cash to people with better cars than mine. Becka, be serious.
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Kathy V. Voted Starboard Yesterday
Topic for you two: whose family gets Thanksgiving when both sides "always host." Been divorced nine years and it's still a negotiation. You'd be at each other for an hour.
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Marianne T. Voted Starboard Yesterday
Listened to this one twice in the Target parking lot. My husband is Jason and I am absolutely Becka and I'm not sure how I feel about being seen like this.
The Ship's Log
Every argument,
and how it ended.
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Ep 17: Six Kids, Two “Grown Ups”, One Boat
Oct 27, 2026Voting open 2 votes so far -
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Ep 16: Men ‘On’ Pause: The Comments
Oct 20, 2026Jason took it 67% · 3 votes -
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Ep 15: Pretty Woman At The Art Of Play
Oct 13, 2026Becka took it 100% · 11 votes -
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Ep 14: Date Night, What Counts When You’re Mid 50s?
Oct 6, 2026Becka took it 57% · 7 votes -
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Ep 13: Wheel of Truth 2: Dating & Early Relationships
Sep 29, 2026Jason took it 100% · 1 votes -
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Ep 12: Growin’ Up And Gettin’ Old
Sep 22, 2026Jason took it 54% · 13 votes
Who's on board
Two people,
one boat, and a lot of opinions.
We're Jason and Becka Duval. Eighteen years married, six grown kids between two previous marriages, and a spare room in New Hampshire that we filled with anchors and a neon sign.
Every Tuesday we sit in those two chairs and argue about something real — money, kids, in-laws, the thermostat — and try to find common ground before the recording stops. Sometimes we get there. Usually we don't.
That's where you come in. You're not the audience. You're the tiebreaker.
18Years Together
13Years Married
0Arguments settled
The studio · Est. 2008 · New Hampshire
Word on deck
You're not the only one yelling at your phone.
What listeners are saying on Apple Podcasts and Spotify.
4.9
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My husband and I fight about this every week
"We put it on during the drive home from daycare pickup and by the driveway we've picked a side. Weirdly the best marriage counseling we never paid for."
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Finally, a couple that argues productively
"Every other relationship podcast is either too therapy-speak or too petty. This one somehow lands on funny AND fair."
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Team Starboard forever
"Jason is wrong about the thermostat and I will die on this hill alongside Becka. Great show, questionable husband."
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